When Trekking And Camping With Children The Mountains Can Have Plenty To Teach Them About Life (also published on Womens Web)

Trekking and camping with children in the mountains teaches them to experience the world through new eyes. It also teaches them a lot about themselves.

It has been a few years since I’ve been going for treks to the Himalayas. Last year my then 12 year old daughter joined me for a 7 day Himalayan trek to the Great Lakes of Kashmir. It was not an easy trek even for us adults, and as the only child in our group (and going by our discussions with the soldiers at the army posts, possibly the youngest to go on that trekking trail), she too found it challenging in some parts. The previous year, my son had been with another group for a trek to Auli in the Uttarakhand region of the Himalayas. Before that, we had been taking our children for shorter treks in the Sahyadri mountains in Maharashtra.

By the end of the Kashmir trek, it was truly an eye opener for me to watch my daughter manage herself through all the excitement, challenges and jubilation of the trekking and camping experience. I could see from up close, the fabulous life lessons that these experiences have to offer children and us.

“I can’t use my mobile phone for five days? But I can’t live without it even for a day!”
“I can’t possibly walk for so many hours!”
“What if I can’t eat or drink anything they serve me there?”

City life brings its share of frustrations for children and for parents, as nature spots are reduced and opportunities to experience the open environs are limited. On one hand, children’s absorption with mobile phones, games, television and online media are making them more house-bound. On the other hand, avenues for out-of-home activities are limited to venues such as malls, restaurants and cinemas.

Being disconnected from nature and outdoor activities, accompanied by an increasingly protected lifestyle among urban children, is limiting our children’s capabilities to adapt to different situations – both physically and mentally.

The mountains offer exciting terrains for climbing uphill or running through lush green meadows; walking through slush, or leaping over boulders; crossing over or wading through streams. The experience of camping means packing and unpacking every day, tucking into sleeping bags at night, sharing a tent with others, and eating what everyone is eating, and much more.

The experience of trekking and camping in the mountains is a great way for children to expand their physical and mental faculties and have loads of fun while at it. Children develop a stronger resilience and endurance as they begin to appreciate that not only can they physically handle a lot more than they thought they could. But they are also capable of being responsible for themselves and adapting to a variety of conditions that they otherwise have not been exposed to.

Often in the midst of the mountains, Nature also achieves what most of us struggle with: get children to unplug from technology, soak in the beauty and develop a personal connect with their surrounding. Some treks incorporate offbeat routes and stays in mountain villages that help children gain an insight into how people lead their lives in remote places – how their houses are built, how their sheep and goat are grazed, how for many, their ways of life have remained unchanged for centuries.

There is an entire range of experienced trekking groups to send our children with, and several locations to choose from.

Here are some ways you can get them started. Whether or not you as parents have been trekkers, you can still get your children started on experiencing the wonders of trekking. Younger children can be encouraged by giving them a taste of the outdoors in nature spots in your vicinity. Start by heading out for walks in and around nature parks, hills, ponds or lakes around you. Middle school children can take on short treks – either day long or overnight treks. Older children can take on 5-7 day treks.
If you are unable to join them yourselves, sign them up through trekking groups that have strong experience in conducting these treks.

So get them started on trekking and watch the “I can’t do this” and “I can’t do without this” convert into a can-do attitude.

This article was also published on Womens Web

Not Just Bengaluru, Not Just India: Women Deserve Every Street In The World - Article pubslihed on Womens Web

Women have every right to be out in any public space in the world, whether in Bengaluru or any other city. 

Women are molested in public in Bengaluru, in mass. Bengaluru’s posh Brigade Street earns the shameful moniker as the ‘Grope Street’ for the largest numbers of groping per square foot. Supposed legislators of the country make more shameful statements that make you wonder if he lives in India or in Taliban country.

But that’s not all. A glance at the comments below the YouTube videos covering this legislator’s statements or news articles covering the New Year’s Eve incidents reveals that some people – both men and women – are stating similar things as that legislator. “If women go out at night, what else do they expect”, “Why do they wear western clothes and invite attention?” “If they drink and go out at night, aren’t they only asking for it!” 

The same night in Bengaluru a woman returning from work walked the short distance from the where auto-rickshaw dropped her to her house. She was caught by two men on that short walk home and she was molested.

On the one hand, we all need to raise awareness on this issue. Groping is not acceptable. Molestation is not acceptable. Rape is not acceptable. The more we talk about it – in the mainstream media, social media, in our workplaces, homes, schools and colleges, on the streets, everywhere – the more that will get understood.

However, I do not want India or any city or town or street to be branded as the ‘rape capital’ or ‘molestation town’ or ‘grope street’ of the world.

Moreover, New Year’s Eve is not the only time when women are molested. As I wrote on my blog in March 2015, women in India face varying degrees of molestation anywhere, anytime. Whatever possible, whenever possible, however possible, men want a piece of it…anything for a feel of a woman’s flesh.

Women do not need to be out at New Year’s Eve, drunk or not drunk, to be groped or molested or raped. They could just be going to school or college or work and it could happen. Or it could happen in their home.

Many people watched the movie “Pink” and raved about it as a movie that everyone should watch and show their daughters and sons. However, how many of the same people think differently when an incident like Bengaluru takes place – that if a woman is out in the night on New Year’s Eve, what she was wearing – jeans and T-shirt, or skirt or dress, or saree or salwar suit – determines if she deserved to be molested? How many think that what she drank – whether it had alcoholic content or whether it was just fruit juice or tea or coffee- determines if she deserved it or not? How many think the time she is out – day or night, before 12 AM or after 12 AM – determines if she asked for it.

What is shocking about the statement of ministers who say that “this happens routinely” (“aisa hota hai”) is that it may just be echoing the minds of many who think women “ask for it”. These are minds that think the primary responsibility of women staying safe should lie with women – so basically, they should stay at home, or if they do step outside, they should be accompanied by a male member – NOT a boyfriend (as by that too, she is “asking for it” as boyfriends are a western concept?), but husband or another male family member. And they should dress “appropriately”.

But guess what – when individuals molest women or when mobs strike, that male person accompanying the woman cannot do anything. For that matter, even 1500 police can’t do anything when it is happening. After the incident, police are unable to catch the molesters, even though some of them may have their faces shown in the CCTV coverage.

And what about the women who are groped and molested just going about their daily work or studies? Nothing wrong with their clothes, but surely they must have given some kind of a “look” that invited groping and molestation?

We need media to cover this with greater insight

I titled my blogpost in 2015 as the Great Indian disease; knowing well that this does not happen only in India, I wrote about what I and many women face(d) in India. The intent is to ensure that people’s mind sets start changing among men and women. The intent is that people take molestation and rape seriously. The intent is that women start talking about the difficulties and insecurities they face with their body – because by talking about it, they will raise awareness. And hopefully people will not judge them as having “invited” a molestation, or “asked for it”.

This Singapore newspaper clip is of two Malaysian ladies who were molested at a party on New Year’s Eve at Sentosa. But in Singapore, men and women and girls and boys are safely traveling by public transport on a daily basis, or flocking to the streets in huge numbers for festive celebrations without groping incidents.

The same newspaper in Singapore has posted news of men who are sentenced to years of jail and caning for groping a woman’s breast, or a yoga instructor touching a woman’s upper thigh, or any kind molestation. Interestingly, in every news report, the picture displayed in the news is that of the molester and not of the victim. Each time the news is posted on the crime and on the criminal getting caught and sentenced, I believe it deters other criminals.

Women all over the world face the brunt of the show of power among men – through kidnapping and rape, molestation and violence. And it’s not okay anywhere in the world.

I feel sad when in so many forums outside India (not just by mainstream international media), incidents that take place against women in India get mileage. In addition to Indian mainstream media covering the Bengaluru molestation incident, the New York Times, The Guardian, Straits Times are among many who have covered this incident. As they cover other such incidents that occur in India. And each time, those living outside India and in India believe every woman in India has been or will be raped, or every woman who steps into any part of the country is a target of molestation.

One just needs to take a look at the comments in the local news, or discussions among locals to understand the extent to which India gets branded as the worst place for any woman. Which is not the case. India is a wonderful country with ample opportunity for women who shine and rise. Albeit just as in many places around the world, it is sad that the women in public spaces here too need to keep one eye (often both eyes and a sharp object at hand) on their whereabouts to ensure there is no untoward advance made toward them.

So dear Indian and international media, if you could please do away with the monikers and labels you are so enthusiastically doling out. Covering these incidents through sensational headlines and labels do catch eyeballs and are great click-baits for you. But please figure out how to balance out your news.
There is a lot to be done to ensure women can rightfully claim public spaces. That is why I support movements like #WhyLoiter where women are encouraged to step into and “loiter” in public spaces in large numbers to make it safer for them to be in them. We don’t need to be at home to stay safe; rather, more of us need to be out to ensure we are making it safer for ourselves and for other women in public spaces.

It is movements like these and many others, and conversations at home and in workplaces, in schools and in colleges, on a regular basis that will help change the mind set and establish a common understanding that women have a natural right to be safe in public spaces.

This article was also published on Women's Web

Your Data to Data Mine - The growing power of data from Facebook to Financial Services

If you were told Facebook knows you better than your therapist, would you believe it? With growing research pointing to this, you may as well start believing it. Research by Stanford cites the growing capabilities of computers to predict your personality accurately from mining data from your actions on social media (yes, including those Facebook “likes”): “After 10 likes, the computer could better predict personality than a coworker; after 70 likes, the computer outperformed a friend or a roommate; after 150 likes, the computer was more accurate than a family member; and after 300 likes, even a spouse couldn’t beat Facebook." This is actually not as bizarre as it may first appear.

When we look at all our transactions in the digital world (read as via the web, mobile, tablet), that heady mix of online purchase of clothes, books, music; of news consumed or subscribed; of statuses updated on social platforms like Facebook or Twitter or LinkedIn, what we have is a strong "digital footprint" developing. Companies and entire industries have been collecting and studying all this data from our digital footprint, to analyse and make sense of what it means for understanding their customer better, and of course what it can mean for their business. 

While "understanding the customer” is as old as business itself, this gains larger dimension and import in the digital world and in the context of data mining. First, there is a lot of data that can be tracked from people's digital footprint, which was possible in a much more limited manner in the offline world. Secondly, with people becoming "digital consumers" in so many spheres of their lives, organisations are able to inch closer and closer to getting that 360-degree view of their consumers. Thirdly, amount of data generated digitally is massive. And with computers retaining and accessing large quantities of information, and analysing all this data through algorithms, mining all that data becomes not only possible, but also very useful. A simple but effective example we see all around us is with the cross-sell opportunity that organizations have when they aid consumers with “Recommended" or "People who bought this also bought this" or "Maybe you would like this" when we buy books, or music, or view restaurant ratings online.

So what is the data mining story when it comes to banking and financial services? 

The latest news to catch attention in the financial services sphere has been how Alibaba is tapping into vast records on the online spending habits of its users to provide credit ratings on consumers. Alibaba is gearing up to gain a stronger assessment of a customer's creditworthiness on the basis of a better financial understanding of customers gleaned through data. And it is gearing up to make credit more readily available to millions of people across China that today do not have access to credit. 

It is interesting to see the various kind of sources that Alibaba will tap into for mining and analysing the data: To start with, for a customer personality profile - the users' credit history, online shopping preferences, repayment ability, personal information and online social networking activity. To determine credit scores, the spending and savings behaviour of Ant Financial’s more than 300 million real-name registered users (which incidentally equals  nearly a quarter of China’s population). It will also tap into data on 37 million small businesses that buy and sell goods on Alibaba’s shopping websites. And it will have access to the payment histories on Alipay (an online payment service similar to eBay’s PayPal). 

Data mining has proven to be an effective tool for the banks especially in the credit card industry in fraud detection (unusual purchasing / fund transfer) and risk management (continually exceeding credit limit or charging an unusually large expense on a card otherwise not used). There is a treasure trove of data available in credit card statements or electronic payment transactions that get routed through them. It is important for banks to ask themselves - Are we utilising that in an effective manner? Are we gaining a better understanding of customers, their behaviour and their credit worthiness? 

A lot can be gleaned about customers by understanding - Who is spending (customer segments - existing and potential), On what (product categories and lines of business), Where (on retail as well as online sales channels), and Through which payment channels (via cheque / credit or debit card / online banking channel, etc.). The over-arching goal for banks is to increase a consumer's "share of the wallet” for their banking products and services, address their customer relationships with greater focus and bring in greater relevance in products (right from Personal Financial Management to lending and relevant reporting), pricing, and channel. And with the growing risks of disintermediation of banks, they need to figure out how they can entrench themselves deeper into their customer's lives through more consultative and advisory roles rather than the more easily commoditizable transactional roles they may be getting reduced to playing.

Note: This is part of a series of posts I will be covering on some of the imperatives being faced by banks today, touching upon topics such as digitalization of banking channels, the role of the cloud, corporate to bank connectivity and the regulatory framework.

Additional references:

1. McKinsey on advanced analytics are redefining banking 
2. McKinsey on innovative ways that Asian banks can create actionable insight from customer data. 
3. Banks can improve Retail Profitability with Enhanced Profitability Data
4. Keybank moves to data driven decision making
5. Banks Use Big Data To Understand Customers Across Channels

The proof of the Apple pudding - Can Apple Pay make mobile payments popular? (Part 2 of 2)

There are many factors that have been attributed to Apple's potential to make mobile payments popular, and many that forecast its doom. In my last post, I covered what are the key ingredients that have gone into the Apple Pay mobile platform from a technology perspective. But for mobile payments to become popular, and if Apple has to have role to make that happen, it's going to require a lot more than technology.

Not all of what constitutes as Apple Pay technology is new (quite akin to its earlier hit-products). For one, NFC (Near Field Communication) technology has been around for almost a decade (Nokia had launched the first NFC phone in 2006). However, it has not really taken off despite being implemented by various mobile payments players that include heavyweights such as Google Wallet and the (in hindsight, unfortunately-named) ISIS service, now renamed as Softcard that is a joint venture between AT&T, Verizon and T-Mobile. 

Among the various ingredients going into Apple Pay, Apple has made a good start with its tie-up of 220,00 retail outlets that rate among the largest retailers in the US. The nay-sayers highlight that this  is not enough to truly make a difference, given that it constitutes only about 2.4 - 3% of the roughly 7 million to 9 million merchants in the U.S. that accept credit cards. According to an industry analyst, the Apple Pay service would need to be usable at about 20% of U.S. retail locations to reach critical mass of acceptance (though I am not at all clear how that was pegged at 20%). What is clear is that retail acceptance is a crucial link in the payments chain, and gains even greater significance as it has been the sorest point for mobile payment uptake up until now. 

Apple's is clearly acknowledging that the reach and spread of contactless merchants can be a potential Achilles heel. Therefore its timing for the Apple Pay launch around the time that US market is being driven by the move to make EMV cards mandatory by Oct 2015 is interesting and smart, as the EMV move will mean that all card readers at merchant outlets will be NFC reader compliant. With 26 % of merchant terminals forecast to be able to accept mobile payments over NFC by the end of 2015 (source: Mercator), the critical mass of acceptance may be achieved given the necessary push. Driven by the EMV guidelines, 85% of US payment cards are also compatible with the Host Card Emulation/Secure Element features that Apple is using. Thus, the impetus for merchants to move toward contactless payments in the US, which many businesses have been reluctant to do so unti now, is more likely to supported with a matter of the right timing. 

Another important aspect is that the mode of payment continues to rest, atleast for now, on card payments. Worldwide, cards are in themselves considered to be convenient enough and fast enough to use and therefore not compelling enough to move away from. Most importantly, cards have an acceptance from merchants worldwide that can only be a wild dream for today's mobile payments players. A lot of this points us to a classic case of "you can't fix what ain't broken". So for any company to succeed at the mobile payments play, there's got to be plenty more to offer than "speed and convenience".

Many of the in-favour articles cite Apple's recent success in "disrupting" markets - be it for the music industry or touch screen devices. Ofcourse, this is true. In fact, taking from its success with iTunes, the industry is raving about how Apple Pay will tap into Apple's existing customer base with roughly 400 million credit cards tied to its iTunes service. That’s quadruple the amount of payment information Amazon holds, according to Business Insider. (Ofcourse, that Apple Pay is currently limited to the just launched iPhone 6, 6 Plus and Apple Watch may seem like a minor caveat?). 

What may have worked for Apple in music and mobile devices until now, may not necessarily work for mobile payments. One lesson has been that to make mobile payments successful, no one single company can really aim to "disrupt" the payment industry. Rather, the highly fragmented and varied nature of the payments industry today has made a compelling case for a company to take the path of collaboration with all the key stakeholders involved. And, for mobile payments to achieve the necessary critical mass of adoption, it may just be a matter of all stakeholders becoming successful. 

And this may just be where Apple's path could be different from its predecessors in this field. Note some of the parties that Apple has partnered with in advance of its launch of Apple Pay. For starters, Apple's partnership in early September with the big three card processors - Visa, MasterCard, American Express has been a critical piece. Together, these companies represent nearly 83% of the total credit card purchase volume in the U.S., while Visa and Mastercard rule outside US too. By aligning closely with them, Apple is making sure they play a critical role in pushing mobile payments, not just in US, but going forward, outside the US too (MasterCard announced that contactless payment acceptance would become standard in Europe by 2020 for merchants accepting MasterCard and Maestro brands of cards). 

Another important ingredient in the mix is Banks, which in the retail payments scenario act as the credit card issuers, though as some have shown in different scenarios have also been trying to get their customers to pay using the bank's mobile apps. Overall, banks have long been at the centre of payments as all regulated money flows through the banking system. They are also the entity that has the most to lose in terms of payment transaction revenue with drastic changes in the landscape. This has also been one of the primary reasons why banks have not been receptive to or supportive of any initiative that threatens their position. 

Apple's pre launch tie-up with the top credit card issuers in the US including Bank of America, Capital One, Chase, Citi, Wells Fargo, and a strong collection of other banks lined up, is a sign of the banks' faith in Apple to propel users to use their technology in ways not done before, and at the same time address the much needed improved POS security and data privacy concerns. It is also a sign that while banks are aware that Apple will take a slice of the transaction revenue from the payment (Apple may net 15 cents for a USD 10 purchase), there is more to gain for them through a growing world of mobile and online payments.

Add other important stakeholders into the mix, and Apple has the top in-mobile purchase apps, payment card terminal manufactures, app developers all not only striking pre-launch partnership with them but also actively pushing its solution.

(Image taken from the web)

WYSIWYG (What You See Is What You Get) right now on Apple Pay cannot be its entire menu for the future. If anyone one has to truly tap into the power of mobile devices (including their wearable counterparts), we will see a lot more services added based on the user's location, search, information on better deals (including search and deal comparison - in the online as well as offline markets) along with the payment as the final leg of the transaction. Apple's trials with iBeacon along with NFC are indicative we will see more of this with Apple Pay. This will also be when the case is no longer that of working in a "you can't fix what ain't broken" market, but rather succeeding in a "we don't yet know what we can have and what we can do with it" market. And Apple has had one of the best track records of doing that.

To conclude, it is very early days to predict anything. But if as is shown above by Apple's many smart moves, be it on the timing, the technology mix, the partners, Apple may have learned some lessons from just observing all the action in the mobile payments space over almost a decade. And the Apple Pay pudding may just be waiting for all of us to dig into some years from now.

The proof of the Apple pudding - Can Apple Pay make mobile payments popular? (Part 1 of 2)

Amidst all the excess of reviews on the launch of Apple iPhone 6, its Plus version and the Apple Watch, my attention ofcourse has been focused on the Apple Pay mobile payments platform and what it can potentially mean for the mobile payment industry. Having never belonged to the die-hard Apple fan cult (I've only recently moved to an iPhone after years of Android based phones that I used extensively and satisfactorily), I am usually skeptical about all the media hype generated around an Apple launch. 

But given all the action and unmet potential until now in the mobile payments industry (covered in my previous blog), I was keen to take a deeper dive to check if there truly were any interesting enough elements adding the masala to the Apple Pay dish. So here goes my take through a two-part blog post.

To explain Apple Pay very simply, Apple Pay provides a platform for mobile payments both, in the brick & mortar (offline) retail stores, as well as for purchases made in the digital (online) world. 

It wasn't until I saw the demos for various payment scenarios that I was able to truly appreciate how simple and easy it would be for a user to pay using Apple Pay. As a user wanting to make a payment at a store, here's what you would do:

• Once you're done shopping, and are ready to pay, hold your phone near a contactless Point of Sale (POS) terminal. The payment amount from the POS shows up on your mobile device.

• The payment card you’ve set as a default is called up on your iPhone. (If you want to pay by another card, you can pull that up and select)

• Put your finger on the Touch ID on the phone device. And your payment is through (notified via a beep and vibration on your iPhone). 

You've completed all this in a matter of seconds, and without even opening a screen or an app. Contrast this to Google Wallet that requires you to wake up your screen and, in some cases, enter a PIN to complete the purchase. (The last time I remember being this fascinated was when Square had launched its own mobile payment service. Now, amidst news of Square's cash burn and a failed takeover attempt by Apple, it is interesting that Square too will be supporting Apple Pay instead of competing with it head-on).

For a user wanting to make a payment for an online purchase, the experience is similar to the offline one. You select your product / service online (or in-app) and put your finder on the Touch ID to pay. It may go unnoticed to some, but this by itself has the potential to blur the divide between payment for offline purchase (where you swipe your card), and online (where you type in your card details), thus potentially speeding up consumer adoption.

The Apple Watch is supposed to work for Apple Pay in a similar way as the iPhone (I could not view its demo though and there are fewer details available on this yet). You double-click the button next to the Digital Crown and hold the face of the Apple Watch near the contactless reader. However, Apple Watch does not require fingerprint authentication (no Touch ID). But what it does have are skin sensors (that also track your fitness, heart rate etc.) and will tell the watch every time the wearer takes it off. So if you remove your Apple Watch, you'll have to enter your Apple Pay PIN again before you can buy anything with your wrist. Also if you're not watchful enough and if someone does manage to steal your Watch, they won't be able to use it to pay. 

There's quite a bit of neat technology at work below the surface. But in what has become first nature to Apple, the wonder of it is that all of that technology really does not (as it should not) matter to the user. Here's a look at what lies beneath to bring better speed and security of transacting for the consumer - 

NFC (or Near Field Communication, this is present in a tiny radio antenna on your mobile device, and also ofcourse needs to be present in the merchant POS too, this is what makes the two devices "talk" to each other), 

Touch ID (the fingerprint reader that makes the single-touch unlock + identity authentication + transaction completion possible), 

Tokenization (to avoid credit card frauds, this makes sure your credit card information is not transmitted every time you transact. Instead a one-time unique code is generated for every instance of a payment transaction), 

Secure Element (again a measure to safeguard your payment card details, this involves a dedicated chip in your mobile device that ensures that instead of using your actual credit and debit card numbers when you add your card, a unique Device Account Number is assigned, encrypted and securely stored in the chip), 

Passbook (this is an existing Apple feature that already stores your boarding passes, tickets, coupons, etc. With Apple Pay, it now allows you to store your credit and debit cards too by simply entering the card security code), 

iSight (this is the inbuilt camera that instantly captures your card information each time you want to add a new payment card to Passbook).

But the true proof of this Apple pudding has bound to be beyond all that cool technology and even cooler user experience. And whether or not Apple Pay will really be the tipping point for large scale adoption of mobile payments, will require a lot more ingredients cooking in the overall payments ecosystem. 

The next blogpost will cover where the differentiators may lie for Apple Pay to play a determining role for the global payments landscape.

Mobile Payments - a moving goalpost, with lots of goals still to score

As a keen follower of trends in the mobile payments industry for several years, I have been eagerly waiting for the time when the sight of payments made via the mobile phone is as commonplace as the cash or card is used today to make payments (some of my blog posts on previous workplace sites have had gushing references to this). I imagined a world where riding on the promise of speed, convenience and efficiency, large sections of the population would:

• With a few simple taps on the mobile screen, pay utility bills or their children's school fees, make cash gifts...even settle IOUs between friends or split restaurant bills.  

• By just one wave of the mobile, get in and out of public buses and trains.

• By a swipe of the mobile, pay for groceries at the super market, or the hairdresser at the neighbourhood salon, or for the daily coffee dose at their favourite cafe. 

The latest news of Apple's partnership with Visa, MasterCard and Amex, and the expected rollout of its mobile payment platform on its new iPhone (and possibly the iWatch too) has brought the spotlight once again on the action. Here's a snapshot on where the action has been these past few years.

Today, we are seeing mobile phones (and smartphones) becoming mainstream, almost an integral part of daily life for much of the world's population. However, even after a significant amount of investment by several organizations - big and small - and an even larger hype from the media, we are still a far cry from mainstreaming payments on the mobile phones. True action is visible in only selected pockets in certain countries. And to set the right context, the often-cited mobile payments flagship story of M-Pesa is an outlier and exception that has not been successfully emulated in any country other than Kenya. 

The kind of organizations that have made a play for a slice of the mobile payment market is numerous and assorted. Almost every major bank in every country today offers mobile payments. Unfortunately, banks, which have otherwise been at the helm of the payments ecosystem, are grossly lagging behind on mobile payments. While payments can act as the gateway to much deeper financial relationships with their customers, most banks are limiting their mobile payments experience to little more than a view of accounts, transactions, and transfers between accounts.

In addition to banks, a massive potpourri of players have all been actively promoting their mobile payment service including mobile carriers, card companies (e.g. Visa with Visa payWave, Visa Checkout, MasterCard with MasterPass, Amex), P2P and P2B payment service providers (e.g. Paypal, Alipay), money service bureaus (e.g. Western Union, Moneygram), new payment innovators (e.g. Square, Monitize, etc.) and the "non-traditional payment players" such as Google (Google Wallet), Apple (Apple Passbook), Amazon (Amazon Wallet) and even Starbucks which quite successfully runs its own mobile payment service integrating various aspects of the knowledge of the consumer preferences and transaction history, location data, loyalty, etc.

The majority of the services revolve around the concept of the "mobile wallet" which in very simple terms is nothing but a digital version of your physical wallet. It thus is a software application on a mobile handset that functions as a "digital container" for your payment cards, tickets, loyalty cards, receipts, vouchers and other items - all of which may be found in a conventional wallet. Starting from SMS to USSD to WAP / XHTML / HTML5,  we've been seeing contactless mobile payment technologies such as NFC (Near Field Communication), QR Code, 2D barcode as some of the underlying technologies driving some of the services. NFC was touted as the biggest game-changer for contactless payments, but has not really seen an expected uptake. 

With so many players devising and implementing their own strategies, technologies and business models, the mobile payment ecosystem has become highly fragmented and crowded. On one hand, widespread merchant acceptance of any one technology is missing, and on the other, the absence of a distinctive value proposition for the mobile phone as a payment device itself is acting a common barrier to consumer adoption. While worldwide mobile payment transactions are estimated to have totalled $235.4 billion in 2013, a 44% increase from $163.1 billion in 2012, with a projected 38% jump to $325 billion in 2014, the blue-eyed baby of mobile payments - NFC based mobile payments are estimated to account for only 5% of total mobile transaction value. (source: Gartner).

Interestingly, among all the action and media buzz around mobile payments, we may be on the cusp of another digital payments wave. A wave brought on by "wearable technology". The kind of two-way communication with consumers that was made possible by the mobile phone technology is now being explored by the makers of wearable technology. Companies are investing into getting the increasingly "smart" wearables such as watches, glasses, bracelets, rings to also support "wearable payments". 

One of the various projects in this area, an early entrant has been Walt Disney Parks and Resorts' MagicBand, which is a contactless wristband Disney created for its park and hotel patrons to use as a room key, theme park ticket and payment account. In another project,  two students from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology created a ring embedded with an RFID chip commuters can use to pay their fare on the Boston area's bus and subway system. Aware of the drab, or worse outright ugly looks that some of the wearable technologies sport, firms are already sportingly investing to bring sleek and stylish wearables to the market!

Apple's launch of its mobile payments platform next week could be both on the iPhone and iWatch. Maybe it will succeed with consumers and the marketplace in a way that no previous service did. Regardless, while "mobile payments" itself may be a moving goalpost, it remains interesting to see the industry and technologies evolve over the next few years and a lot of goals scored for all entities involved, most importantly for the consumers.

Having it all - Is it a myth afterall?

I came across many reactions to Indra Nooyi's interview on whether or not women can "have it all". Among them:

• Sigh!, said some (such as here), not again the whine of being a woman and managing life as a working mother. If they can't manage it, why choose to go for it?
• Oh yeah!? When was the last time MEN were asked the question of how they manage work-life balance?
• What's with all the fuss? Didn't we too raise children and manage our careers without making such a big deal of it either way?
• Barkha Dutt and NDTV made this the topic for one of their We the People discussions, making for an interesting discussion

I remembered having heard about the same milk-fetching incident from Indra Nooyi on a video clip some six years ago when conducting research to understand more about women corporate leaders who made it to the top. In that panel discussion, while Indra Nooyi mentioned this incident, she did not delve much into it. By the end of that interview, some thoughts stayed at the back of my mind: Why didn't she talk more about it? Did she discuss it later with her mother...and her husband...and children? What are other ambitious women facing in their personal lives while they manage their work in a highly competitive corporate world and how are they dealing with the challenges and expectations?

So when I read her article recently, above all, I admired her for her honesty. When she set out to reach where she did in her career, obviously she made choices that have been hers, but kudos to her for being upfront about what that choice has meant for her in her personal and family life. The way I see it, women like Indra Nooyi, Sheryl Sandberg (I would strongly recommend women AND men to read her book, Lean In), Anne-Marie Slaughter (whose article a while back had also generated a lot of discussion ) are only making it easier for so many career focused women to talk about what makes the path to senior corporate positions difficult for women. 

So what’s with this "having it all"? Is it exclusive to women?

Ofcourse it is not exclusive to women, but I'd like to focus on what it means for women as it's definitely a controversial and subjective topic. That is mainly because what “all” means for a woman entirely depends upon how she is wired. One thing is clear is that if a woman has great ambitions from her career, it’s best that she forget the balance part of the work-life balance. It's about choosing her priority and in the highly competitive world we live in, if she wants to make it to the top, she should make sure she sets the necessary support systems in place (she’s likely already done that in order to be even thinking about making it to the top), make things clear to all who matter in her family about what her choice means for everyone, and focus on what needs to be done. 

But often, the one thing that comes in between a woman's focus and actually having it all is something that actually has no place in this at all - Guilt. And the big (I mean biiig) problem is she’s going to be ridden with guilt all too many times. Now, I don't know if guilt is the exclusive domain of women (there has to be a guilt chromosome that hasn't yet been discovered), but there it is! Looming its crooked head through the years - I left my little child at home with the maid (or in day care)..will she be ok? When most of the other kids have their mothers waiting at home when they return from school, I only get to see them in the evening...often only at dinner time. I missed the mid-week morning PTA. Worse, I missed my child's annual day at school! My kids have to do their own homework! My laundry is pending. Could I have made more variety of food for dinner? At the risk of generalising - you don't find men berating themselves over these issues, do you? So let’s accept that guilt is an exclusive premise of women. Like pregnancy and breast-feeding and periods. But fellow women, the next time we take off on the guilt trip, better not to resist it...instead let's just embrace it. Coz we’re in it together :)

In a nut-shell, if a woman is wired to be thinking big career ambitions, I don't think she can have it all / do it all. For that matter, I don't think men can either. The big difference is women want to do it all / have it all. And are ready to beat themselves to death over it. 

Is "life" at conflict with "work" only faced by women? Why are they asked about it?

Yes, it's not right that the same questions are not posed to men corporate leaders (does that sound strange? That's because no one refers to it that way) being asked similar questions about how they manage work and life (where "life" includes managing the household and children (and in cases, ageing parents too). Is it because (1) the women who do make it to the top are so few that they make heads turn in amazement at how they did it, or (2) the question of "work AND life" doesn't arise in the minds of ambitious men who make it to the top, or (3) women generally feel more strongly about these things so naturally they get asked about this. I reckon it is a combination of all three. 

For a while now, girls and boys in many families in many countries are being brought up on equal terms - where, right from childhood, girls learn not to differentiate themselves from boys in what they believe in, what they aspire for, and what they seek to do in their lives. With stars shining bright in their eyes, women take cognizance of the constraints to do with the biological clock, but often believe the decision of raising or not raising a family needn't really come in the way of their career aspirations.

The conflict between life and work really comes up because a woman even today is essentially breaking a mould where she has played the role as primary care-giver at home for generations and generations of human existence, influencing society and homes in more ways than one. And although increasingly, girls in each new generation are seeing themselves differently, the larger social context in which they grow in isn't entirely sure how to deal with what that equality means for everyone. So when girls and boys grow up and raise their own families, it is far more likely that reality bites in the form of men and women not knowing anymore how to handle their increasing individual ambitions, and the increasing demands of their family life. This often translates into women resorting back into their role as primary care giver for children (and often later, ageing parents). All too many times, what gets termed as a woman making a choice to stay at home rather than pursue her career, is not so much a matter of choice. This is because the choice that needs to manifest itself into better support systems and child care facilities, equal paternity leave, complete spousal support and strong encouragement from family is often missing. 

In recent times, perhaps driven by husbands who are far busier than the earlier generation, and / or getting married to men with much higher resources, an increasing number of well-educated, talented and high potential women in my generation have dropped off their career early on or mid-stream. I read that 60% of Indian urban women give up the career mid-way. These also include those who had set ambitious career goals for themselves while growing up and pursuing higher studies and starting work.

Another alarming pattern has been that somewhere between my mother's generation and it was time for my generation to be mothers, the idea of parenting, and mothering in particular began to see a change. Perhaps this had also increased the guilt quotient for mothers who've chosen to work outside the home? In my childhood, my mother or my aunts (who were working outside the house) as well as my aunts and friends' mothers who stayed at home did not spend as much time as mothers do now in getting the kids to do homework, study for exams, pick up and drop for various classes, monitor their  activities etc. Having seen this around me for many years, I was impressed when, in Sheryl Sandberg's Lean In, I came across this: 

In 1975, stay at home mothers spent an average of about 11 hours per week on primary child care (defined as routine care-giving and activities that foster a child's well-being such as reading and fully-focused play). Mothers employed outside the home in 1975 spent 6 hours doing this activity. Today's stay at home mothers spend about 17 hours per week on primary child care on average; while mother who work outside the home spend about 11 hours. This means an employed mother today spends about the same amount of time on primary child care activities as a non-employed mother did in 1975.

A similar study by the University of California at San Diego cites college-educated mothers are spending more time with their kids than ever: an extra nine hours a week since 1995. That's the equivalent of an entire extra workday women spend as their children's soccer-watchers, snack-selecters, flashcard-flashers, all-seven-volumes-of-Harry-Potter readers, college-essay editors and Candyland rivals (not necessarily in that order). 

I do not have access to parallel statistics for India, but an increasing number of mothers in my generation find it critical to be involved in their children's lives on an hourly basis, if not minute to minute basis. Whether that leads into stronger, more resilient, independent children or actually is detrimental to their growth is a topic of continued research today. 

Why work life balance should matter to both men and women

Irrespective of how high career ambitions are, it is important that women build their lives to be financially independent. A big push for it comes from the need of a society where in many parts of the world, horrific ills such as female infanticide, dowry, domestic violence continue to exist. Because girls as still viewed as a burden to the family. Even among the urban educated girls who "choose" to leave work when they get married or have children, how many of them wish they could get back to work by the time the children start school. How many of them are able to find work of their choice or what they were earlier qualified to do? How many of them find themselves divorced and having to start to fend for themselves from scratch, or worse, trapped in a marriage only because they cannot fend for themselves. 

There are societies around the world, where another problem is faced bringing into focus an entirely different social and economic dimension. People have been choosing not to have children at all due to work-life imbalance. In the race to dream for bigger things - be it material riches or glory or fame - families and society are left imbalanced. So the important question looming ahead of us is how can we, men and women, help each other out to strike a balance that works for both. Maybe that will dispel the myth and both men and women can actually have it all.

Girls education and women's financial independence helps to pave a way out of social injustices through attitudinal shifts. But attitudinal shifts cannot happen only with girls. Even today, how many men are asked the question of how they manage work and life. But men need to be brought into this discussion. Preferably, at as early an age as possible. Because if we desire a society where true gender equality needs to play out, the onus of thinking about work and life is not just women's alone but equally, men's. So while mothers and fathers nurture and encourage leadership traits in children irrespective of their gender (such as Ms. Nooyi's mother has been known to), they also need to question if they are placing a much larger share of care giving responsibilities on their daughters than they are on their sons and future sons-in-law.