Age no bar

Just got back from a wonderful Goan holiday with the family. With Appa (dad) there too it has been a pleasure as always to see him and the kids get along so fabulously. Seeing their mutual joy, its almost as if there is no age difference between them. And yet they are learning from each other all the while.

Walking, running or swimming through the waves can be one of the most exhilarating experiences. I realize that the oceans and the waves continue to exude the same feelings of amazement and wonder within me. Its interesting to observe that there is a pattern to a lot that is happening with the ocean (I may write about this some other time).

The holiday was immediately followed by memories of a momentous occasion - the day when the world at large, and my parents and near and dear ones in particular, welcomed the arrival of a great person. For such a momentous occasion, it seems like the day was spent in a relatively ordinary way with none of the customary celebrations that rock the neighbourhood. All the more reason to get into self-introspection mode.

It is good to be 35. 35, rather the 30s in general, feel good. And fun. And wholesome. It feels more mid-life than any other age (when Appa and I were talking yesterday, we realised I am almost half his age. Now his is a good age to have lived, especially considering he has atleast twice almost not made it till here) .

At 35, there is this much that''s been done and experienced, and there is that much that is yet to be explored. To be enjoyed. To be lived.

I don't know and wouldn't care to know what my lifespan is going to be. I just know that there is this one life I have. And I want to live it to the fullest that I can. I sure hope I'm not the one stopping myself from doing so.

"Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life"

It was only recently that I found out that it was Confucius, the Chinese philosopher, who came up with this quote. Its amazing that this thought from the 500's BC is still, if not all the more, valid in today's times - when questions of work satisfaction, a fulfilled work life have been faced not just by me, but I find from my interactions that a lot of people are contemplating this and are at different stages of career-altering decisions because of this. (I'm still trying to imagine the long, pointy-moustached Confucius thinking of this quote in ancient China, but I will park these thoughts for another time)

Fortunately or unfortunately (depending on the outlook), leaders of companies have a tougher time motivating and retaining the set of people for whom work satisfaction matters. There is a belief as stated in this article that the key is for leaders to find out from these people - Deep down, when they’re honest with themselves – what do they really want to do? Once they determine that and communicate it, you can see if it is aligned with the company’s needs.

There is alignment of individual goals to company goals and everyone lives happily ever after. Sounds like a fairy tale? It does to me. What I am trying to understand is:
- Can this actually work in larger companies facing all the standard issues around business growth, customer focus, employee retention. How do the goals of 100s and 1000s of employees align with those of the company?
- Can there actually be an alignment of everyone's individual goals that add up to the company's goal?
- Who is responsible for ensuring the alignment - is it only the person(s) at the top running the company or does this need to happen at every level in the organization?
- If individual goals are kept at the forefront, will this not create siloes where people are only set on achieving their own goals - and could not really bother themselves with checking how this impacts the company's goals?

What is all the more interesting is to understand what happens when the same set of employees who earlier believed that that their goals matter, find that the person(s) at the top now have changed and the new set of leaders have a completely divergent view. And their view is that the organization and its goals are larger than the individuals and their goals.